Gantung Tak Bertali

I'm so sad to hear that my girlfren yg menuntut cerai 3 (I think)or more years ago, still lagi gantung tak bertali. Actually my fren ni dah turun naik mahkamah syariah tah berapa kali tah tapi tak settle2 lagi. Few times dah hubby dia tak muncul kat mahkamah syariah tetiba this time datang berlagak macam alim, berjanggut n berkopiah. It looks like my fren pulak yang jahat padahal hubby dia ni dah la tak de pekerjaan yang tetap siap kahwin 2 lagi and now dah ada 8 kids with the second wife. My fren ni first wife and ada 5 kids. Before this dia dok tanggung hubby and bini kedua, tapi after lama2 dah tak tahan dah, so ask for divorce. Boleh pulak hubby dia ni cakap dia tak kan lepaskan my fren ni walau apa sekalipun. Kesian sungguh I dengar, anybody yg boleh tolong settlekan my fren's problem tak? I really tak understand this kind of LELAKI, memang dayus betul la..rasa mcm nak flying kick aje or potong 20. Grrrr...geram betul la.....